Are You The Nosy Neighbor?

Is being nosy that much different than being creative?

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Every neighborhood has a nosy neighbor — the person who knows what’s happening in everyone’s lives without ever talking to anyone. You probably know the type.

I think I’m that person in my neighborhood.

Since I began working from home nearly a year ago, I updated my home office. My desk sits next to the house’s front windows. I have a lovely view of my neighbor’s driveway and the sidewalk just to the left of my desk.

Any movement outside the windows immediately draws my attention. Mainly because I live on a tranquil street, so anything outside the normal stillness is jarring. Also, it probably has something to do with the windows being located directly in my peripheral vision. I’m sure fight or flight mentalities trained our brains to be extra cautious of that kind of movement.

Anyway, without any intention of becoming the nosy neighbor, I think it just happened. I know when my neighbors work and when they come home for lunch. I also know people’s exercise schedules and exactly when the USPS, FedEx, UPS, and Amazon deliver to the neighborhood.

Being nosy isn’t always a bad thing. Curiosity leads scientists to discover new medicines and planets. Is curiosity really that much…